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WHAT IF I FIND MY LIFE NOW PERFECT?

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in that case this website is simply not for you at the moment and of course that is OK

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every path is unique, everyone is the captain of his/her ship​

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WHEN IS THE IDEAL TIME TO START?

 

the ideal time to start is when you are completely ready to start

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as mentioned above, we are averse to change, especially if we cannot control this change

 

as a result, we are also the procrastination champions when it comes to changing our lifes

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at first we will wait until the loan is paid off, once the loan is paid off we will wait until the children have graduated and left home, then we will wait until our partner agrees...

 

we wait and we keep waiting 😊

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in most cases we only take action when we are (extremely) triggered

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as mentioned on the example page, the dark night of the soul, this is when we are extremely depressed, is one of the best triggers of change​

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WHAT EXACTLY IS MY DESTINATION?

 

obviously we don't all have the same predestination

 

just as our DNA has a unique predestination, our words, thoughts, feelings and actions also have a unique predestination

 

with a little imagination you could call them our invisible DNA

 

we would simply not be mentally prepared if we were to wake up one day with the thoughts, words and actions we were destined to do

 

the universal intelligence, which of course knows our predestination, will us unveil the next step, when we are ready for it, as long as we consistently repeat the request to become as we are predestined

 

naturally, our intelligence allows us to think of, visualize and plan a change process ourselves and then ask the universe to help us with this, this is what the majority of humanity does consciously or unconsciously (as mentioned earlier, we have fear to ask for something abstract, because the lack of control)

 

however, our intelligence relates to the universal intelligence as the human body relates to the universe

 

just as no one can predict how the physical DNA will develop when looking at a fertilized egg, but this is in fact already predestined, we cannot predict or predict how our words, thoughts and actions will develop, even though those also are predestined 

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please note that we do not mean that our entire life was/is fatefully determined by “predestination”, but we do mean our unique, predestined growth potential, just like a fully grown fruit tree comes into fruition ​

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WHAT WILL ACTUALLY HAPPEN DURING THIS PROCESS?

 

every process is unique, so it is impossible to describe exactly what will happen

 

however, it is a slow process, an evolution and anything but a revolution, and you will actually not notice much of it

 

at times you will even start to doubt whether the process is still going on at all (see page: what to do in case of doubt during the process)

 

you can compare it with a tree that you do not see growing, but if you were to take a photo every week you would definitely see a difference

 

when we live to a large extent as we are predestined, we are like a fruit tree loaded with fruit​

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WHAT EXACTLY CHANGES DURING THE PROCESS?

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here the answer is very easy and clear : EVERYTHING 😊

 

the transformation process is a complete makeover, we are talking about our version 2.0

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it concerns thousands of small and larger changes, which will be spread over a few years

 

some examples of this changes could be

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more sports & games, healthier food, more sleep and rest, more relaxation, spending more time in the vast unspoilt nature, living more according to the rhythm of nature, volunteer work, meeting new people, keeping a diary, doing things that you like child liked to do, being creative, yoga, meditation, mindfulness, focusing on the senses while walking, eating, listening to music,..., going on a trip, praying, being able to deal with past traumas, learning/researching, reading, writing, fasting, learning to say "no", eliminating needs/addictions, renouncing possessions

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we will also gradually respond more and more with love to persons, things and situations that have caused suffering in the past

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we will respond with tolerance, acceptance and compassion instead of rejection and condemnation, with generosity instead of stinginess, with love instead of hate, with forgiveness instead of resentment, with giving instead of jealousy...

 

our immune system will function more and more optimally, we will have fewer physical discomforts, we will worry less and we will discover, develop en utilize more en more of our potential 

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our needs will also be reduced to our real basic needs and that will also substantially reduce our suffering

 

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WHEN WILL WE SEE THE FIRST RESULTS?

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our conditioning consists of countless different mini-conditionings from which we need to free ourselves, and unfortunately there is no magical druid potion to remove these programs in one blink of the eye

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so there is no reason to panic if we do not see any results in the first few days, or worse, if we think we are noticing a decline

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as mentioned earlier, it comes down to structurally changing our mindset, so that our mindset becomes more and more a catalyst and less and less a saboteur

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once this is the case we can be sure that within a month we are living to a greater extent as we are predestined​

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WHAT IF MY INTUITION SUGGESTS RADICAL CHANGES?

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most changes are reversible and can therefore be undone if desired, but experience shows that this “never” happens

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naturally, there will be things that will appear very radical to our analytical mind, like ending a relationship, submitting a resignation, changing residence, emigrating, etc.

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here it is important too not to force anything, if you are not ready to change yet, that is not a problem

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sleep on it one or more nights and if after some night's rest the doubts still persist, just keep everything as it is

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HOW CAN I SHORTEN THE PROCESS?

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there is no quick fix solution, as already mentioned several times before

 

this is a continuous, slowly growing organic process of several years

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in any case, the essence stays always to let the mindset function as much as possible as a catalyst and as less as possible as a saboteur

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